Chapter 1: MY 2025 DIVORCE – DID MY WIFE CHEATED ON ME?

I must say outright, I have no substantiating evidence alleging an infidelity. I only have suspicious incidents.

Ndikuti ndilibe umboni wina uliwonse ogwilika oti Mai a Chisomo CHEATED on me. Ngakhale zili chonchi panali zina ndi zina zimandisowetsa Mtendele komaso kundipatsa maganizo.

That’s why I did not divorce her based on adultery grounds. I have no evidence kuti anapanga chigololo olo ali ndi chibwezi kapena anali ndi chibwezi.

#FirstIncident:

The screenshot attached below was captured on 10th January,2025 on Friday at 11:23pm. Nthawi imeneyi ndinali ndili panja ndimapanga zina ndi zina or either I was smoking not knowing Mkazi wanga akucheza ndi EX wake.

I found her asleep. Wanted to do check something in her phone ku WhatsApp, I usually send my important information to her to record and keep on my behalf.

Ndipamene ndinapeza nambala ya ex wakeyu amene zina lake lili Leesto Phiri , they were in online committed intimate relationship around 2010 to 2013. Unfortunately their WhatsApp conversation was deleted but she forget to delete the name. That’s how I found it.

I just took the below screenshot and, there was a sensitive video as well in her gallery. I confronted her same time, she said uyoyo “LISTO was asking her about prices of work suits and safety boots.”

I quizzed her why didn’t contact me directly and if it was an honest conversation why did she deleted it. And, she said the video was her personal thing as she was checking something like a pimple or something.

Kenako anayamba kulusa why touching my phone, do I touch yours? Bwanji ukundipanga stalk. She said I have insecurities and low self esteem. I left the conversation at it.

I realized they’re Facebook friends whilst ine ndikawona ngati anabulokana. It really irritated me when I discovered that she went even far by liking his wife’s picture (see attached and name showing “Ma Chisomo”). Why liking the picture of your Ex boyfriend’s wife?

#Second Incident

From her own mouth she told me , kale kale in early 2000’s Happy (name withheld) used to go out with her friend and then best friend of his was Phiri (name withheld). Phiri yo amkafuna Yamie koma Yamikani amamukana. Even Yamieyo aunt ake told her kuti amulore adye dolla koma Yamie amakana.

Fast forward to 2025.

At Airwing, there is mechanic specializing in Germany cars – benz, Volvo, VW etc….

Phiri and Yamie met there. Yamie was going to Gateway Mall. Phiri left his car at the garage and asked for a lift from Yamie. Yamie was with her Niece Yankho. They did give him a lift.

This incident anandiwuza yekha Yamikani yo. Amvekele; “ndafuna kukuwuzani izizi mwina anthu ena atha kubwela olo utha kumva kwa ena and ziwoneka zina zake.

Ndinakumana ndi Abwana ako akale a Phiri ndipo ndawapasa lift koma Phiri yo amakuwopa iweyo kuti ukamuwona mu galimoto ali ndi ine utukwana komaso umuyalusa pa fesibuku. Koma ine I told him Yami is not like that and Phiri to told me to tell you kuti usazapangenso zandale just concentrate on business.”

Imagine. Ndinangomwela madzi koma mumtima mwanga munali mafunso opanda mayakho.

#thirdincident

Sometime back coming from Tanzania, during transit at Chileka Airport. We were sitting pa mipando yokhala athu atatu. She received a phone call from a man and they chatted I enquired from her ndi ndani after the call she told me “it’s her ex boyfriend waku Ndirande akuti amapatsa moni.” I shouted at her mu ndege momo kuti zowona ur talking to your ex boyfriend in front of me like seriously. Even neba wathu pa mpando looked at me and gave me a sign to calm down and resolve the issue at home not publicly.

I remained quite didn’t speak to her all the way . When we landed in Lilongwe. She told me she has blocked the guy.

#Conclusion.

These are only suspicious incidents I have come through, though palibe umboni ogwilika opanga cheat. Only God knows. That’s why this is not the reason why I DIVORCE HER.

For clarifying and control:

For 8 years. I have never cheated on my wife. I have never fucked any woman in these 8 years. There is any woman I have slept with from 2017 to 2025 apart from my wife.

FEEL FREE TO COME OUT AND EXPOSE.

Am committed man. Am loyal and faithful. Am challenging ngati alipo tsikana wina aliyense ndinanyengana naye from 2017 to 2025 in May. Bwelani muzanditsuse. Sikuti ma temptations sindimakhala nawotu. Analipo ambili I could have also cheated bobo koma ndimazibweza kuti no . I made vows. I will break any vow. This is my way of healing.

Pakali pano sindikupanga za ulemu or za maturity. Ndilibe nazo ntchito.hese issues were burning in my heart. I have to let them go to.

Zikomo.